From Daddy with love

Dad asked me if I ever like Ameerul. So I said, biasa je. I lied. He asked me once again if I like Ameerul or not? Look, I don’t get this. Why on earth he was asking me that? I surely like him, I mean why I would like to be his girlfriend if I don’t like him. 

And now, I love him.

So, to answer my dad, I said yes. Who knows, my dad really wanted to know my answer because he actually had planned to get us married. And he secretly planned it with Ameerul’s parents and he wanted to make it as a big surprise to me.

No. Actually it was a no. A big no.

My dad won’t allow me to get married before I get my degree.

I said yes. I like him. A lot. More than a lot - I added it in my mind.

My dad gave a little laugh. I know this would be a start to a long lecture.

My dad started with, "Well, if you like him, you should respect him. Treat him nicely."

"I saw the way you talked to him, you're arising your voice. That's not a good way to talk to people. 

You know, if we respect people, they will respect you back."

"Practise it from now, even though you're not his wife yet you should always talk to him in a well manners. Later when you get married with him, your marriage will be blessed by Allah. Good wife will get a blessing from Allah and you marriage will be a successful one."

"When you treat him nicely, he will never underestimate you, instead he will always be good to you in return."

I listened and responded by saying, "Yes, right, okay, I will, yes". Pretended that I listened and try to give a grow-up responses.

My dad loves me, he wants me to be the best. And he wants me to be everyone's favourite.

I know and I appreciate that.

long distance relationship tips

It doesn't important on how long are your distance between you and your partner. What more important is the way you handle the situation.

Being in a long distance relationship is not that tough, seriously. Look, distance is just kilometres. You are separated by roads, that's it. The rest, it's your way of thinking.

Pros and cons.

Girls, you are totally free, you can do whatever you want, you can spend on whatever you want, and YOU'LL HAVE MORE TIME TO YOURSELF! Please say hello to facial treatment, scalp massage and shopping time. ( Sorry, scandalling is excluded, smart girls won't do scandalling, right? Right Shushy?)

* Don't worry, your boyfriend won't read mine *

Bad side, you'll be missing him/her so bad. That's not a bad side actually. Never mind.

How will you handle this situation?


Step one... Keep in mind that it is just distance. Jealous kilometres that separate you guys so you'll be missing each other much more.

Step two... Start saying hello to 1 plus 5 Celcom package.

Step three... Always keep doing anything together. Even though you're not in the same place, but try to watch a movie together while staying in a phone line. If it happens to him to sleep during your movie session, just forgive him. He'd try so hard for it.

Step four... Suprises! OMG, I love surprises, that is why I do suggest this for you guys, and yes for you specifically! Send him out cute gifts. Happiness won't come to find you dear, we have to work for it. Google out for gifts convenient store that provide delivery services , for examples, cupcakes, t-shirt, puzzle, card and flowers. MAKE SURE IT'S NEAR TO YOUR SUBJECT'S HOUSE.

Or just press his house's bell and tadaa, make a funny face for him. He'll love it and he'll loves you more.

Steps five... Be loyal.

Steps six... Trust each other.

Steps seven... Respect.

Steps eight.. Cheating is your enemy, honesty is your bestfriend. Be nice to others and they'll be nice to you back.

Steps nine... Never make assumption. Assumption was my advisor before but then I'd realized it won't get me far. Say no to them, stay positive and smile.

Steps ten... Repeat all the above steps.

Jodoh is in God's hand. That's for real.

"If you're in love with somebody, you will swim the stream, you will climb the mountain, you will slay the dragon..."